Blowjobs are incredible. Right?

They give you that amazing, warm tingling sensation of having a girl’s mouth wrapped around your penis; teasing and playing with her tongue, mouth and even her lips!

We’d go as far as saying that the ol’ blowjob is better than sex itself, but that’s a debate for another time.

The trouble with blowjobs is that they don’t come around as often as we’d all like them to.

In fact, some guys wait a whole year for that special birthday blowjob. Maybe you’re still waiting?

And, to be fair to the ladies, some just don’t like sucking dick every night.

Who’s to blame them?

Some guys don’t wash their dick for days on end!

How can you expect a girl to be into sucking dirty dick?

You wouldn’t want to lick out Smelly Sally. Would you?

The dilemma: keep yourself impeccably clean all the time OR accept that you won’t get a blowjob as often as you’d like.

Well, now you can have the best of both worlds and still involve your lady (if you want).

Introducing the blowjob masturbator…

Blowjob Masturbators

What is a blowjob masturbator?

A blowjob masturbator is a sex toy used to stimulate the penis in a way that re-creates oral sex.

Hurray! Blowjobs are back.

Whenever you feel like you are in need of some felatio, just reach out for your BJ masturbator and you’re off to the races.

Who wouldn’t be excited at the prospect of having oral sex anytime they wanted it?

BUT WAIT!

The crazy thing about sex toys is that because everyone’s sexual fantasies are different, it tends to lead to a huge variety of options.

So, not every sex toy on the market will be right for you.

Before you go out and buy one, it’s worth having a read of our guide to get the low down on all your options.

 

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Can they really simulate a blowjob?

It’s near impossible to to match the pleasure of receiving a real blowjob.

The feeling of your partner enjoying themselves while giving you pleasure itself is part of the fun and you just can’t manufacture that.

With that being said, the sex toy industry has done its utmost to come out with some incredible devices that get pretty damn close to the real thing.

If you’re in the position where you would like the sensation of receiving oral sex, but don’t have a partner at hand then we’d definitely recommend introducing blowjob toys into your life.

In fact, we’d go as far as to say that using a blowjob masturbator is better than receiving oral sex from someone with no blowjob skills at all!

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Using them with your partner

This week, we’ve been discussing how male sex toys might affect relationships.

And, one thing cropped up a few times; would your lady get jealous or feel left out if you start using sex toys?

The answer should be a definite no,

From our experience, women love the fact that men are now using sex toys in the bedroom.

They’re bored of the same old wanking motion and are ready to spice things up.

And if you take the initiative and start introducing new fun things to sex, then we’re pretty confident that they’ll be interested in participating.

How to introduce sex toys into the bedroom

Step 1: Choose a sex toy

Have a browse through our recommended options and see which you might like to go for.

You want to go for an option that looks fairly plain and easy to handle (as it’ll be your partner that is doing it).

For that reason, we’d recommend a blowjob stroker toy.

Step 2: Tease the idea

Whipping a sex toy out mid-sex can be a bit of a surprise for some people.

From our experience, if you hint and tease at the idea beforehand, it’ll build up the tension nicely.

A simple text like: “I’ve got a sexy surprise for you tonight” should do it.

Step 3: Have it ready to use before sex

At this point, you’ve got your sex toy and you’ve got a sexy partner ready to go.

But, there’s a problem; the packaging.

There’s nothing more of a buzzkill whilst you’re in the moment than a sex toy that isn’t ready to use!

All you need to do is get it out of the packaging, check the instruction and make sure it’s in a safe space nearby your bed.

Then, when the moment’s right, you just need to open up the drawer and get going!

the importance of appearance

The importance of appearance

From our perspective, the appearance of an oral masturbator shouldn’t be the critical factor when deciding which one to purchase.

Reason being that when you’re using it, you’re most likely to be:

  1. Fantasising about a sex act in your head
  2. Using the toy with your partner
  3. Watching pornography

In fact, the only time that you’ll really notice what it looks like is just before you start masturbating and when you put it on.

So, instead of thinking about how good the toy should look, we prefer to think about it in terms of ‘does it’s appearance put you off’?

With that being said, we’ve broken the situations down into how likely you should care about the look.

Without a visual stimulus

Although you’ll most likely end up visualising a blowjob you’ve had before or seen on porn, if you’re masturbating without any visual material to look at then, it can help to have an attractive looking toy to start off the process.

If you come out of your head at all and look at what’s going on then having something that looks closer to reality will also help you get back in ‘the zone’.

Use with a partner

In situations where you are using oral sex toys with your partner, we don’t think that the aesthetic should really play much of a factor in the appearance at all.

Chances are that they want to get involved in the action too by either changing the sex toy out for themselves.

With that being said, in cases where your partner isn’t able to have sex for whatever reason, they may enjoy the visual element; allowing them to give themselves an idea of what a blowjob look like from a different view.

Use whilst watching porn

Okay, so if you’re watching porn then the only point you’ll really notice the appearance is when you’re putting it on.

Your focus will be pretty much dedicated to the action on the screen so, in our opinion, the aesthetic isn’t that important.

However, one thing that you may want to consider is if you have a fantasy about a particular porn star.

In such cases, they may have an oral masturbator that looks like their mouth.

That way, you can look at the porn and glance at yourself every now and again, helping you to imagine that you are right there in the heat of the action.

 

manual vs automatic

Manual vs Automatic

When it comes to blowjob toys, you’ve really got to ask yourself what you want out of the experience.

Do you want to enhance the feel of your masturhation or do you want to recreate the sensation of receiving a blowjob?

Think of it this way…

During masturbation ( with your hand) you’re more in control. You are choosing the speed of the strokes you use.

However, when you receive a blowjob, your partner chooses the movements and motions.

And, to us the blowjob toys available kind of reflect that distinction.

You’ve got options that are static in nature. You put them around the penis, hold the grip and move them up and down by yourself.

What you’re doing here is essentially swapping out the grip from your hand for a more enjoyable mouth.

Then, you’ve got options that do all the motion for you.

On the inside, there is nubs that move up and down themselves that gives you the feeling of having your penis sucked.

Neither options is better or worse than the other.

It just depends on what you prefer.

 

get your size right

Getting the right fit

Let’s be honest with ourselves, we’ve all overestimated the size of our penises at least once.

In social situations, no harm done. However, when it comes to getting the size of your blowjob toy right, it’s pretty important.

In fact, if you get the size wrong, it could ruin the experience entirely.

Interestingly enough though, the most common complaint about sex toys isn’t that they are too big; it’s that they are too small.

If you’re a larger sized man, be careful to have a look at the size of the sex toy before you go ahead and buy one.

It can be difficult to return a purchase after you’ve put your penis in it!

Don’t know your own size?

We’ve put together a simple guide on measuring your penis that you can find here.

 

check your sensitivity

The level of intensity

A lot of guys miss out on the full enjoyment of masturbation and sex.

They see the climax as the end goal and try and get to it as quickly as possible, but there’s so much more to it than that.

If you pace yourself by starting off slowly and build up to an intense and rigorous climiax, you’ll find that you get a much more powerful climax.

The trouble with blowjob toys (and sex toys generally) is that if you choose one that is particularly intense then you may go straight from 0 to 100 and miss out the build up.

That build up and release is what makes the whole experience enjoyable. Not just a quick jerk.

So, when it comes to selecting your blowjob masturbator, you want to take note of how tight it is and the nubs in the middle.

If the toy is very tight and has more nubs, you’ll most likely orgasm quicker.

By starting off with a toy that is less intense and working up to the options that are incredibly intense, you can build up to even better orgasms.

 

ease of cleaning

How well do they clean?

If you leave your blowjob masturbator unclean for too long, it won’t be long before it needs thrown out.

So, it’s in your interest to keep in good condition.

After you’ve had an orgasm, the last thing you want to do is clean up though.

With that in mind, most blowjob toys have been made in a way that is fairly easy to clean.

We’ve put together a full guide to cleaning sex toys. Click here to read it.

Types of blowjob sex toys

Whether you’re looking for a toy that will simply resemble the inner feel of a mouth or you’re looking for the full on mechanical blowjob experience, there’s an option out there for you. Let’s jump into the details of each category now:

Blowjob Strokers

Blowjob Strokers

First up, we have the blowjob strokers.

These are the simplest oral masturbators available.

They’re not designed to look good, but instead focus more on enjoyment, ease-of-use and discretion.

To use them, you simply put your penis inside the toy and stroke up and down depending on the speed that you enjoy most.

The end of your penis will also pop out the end of the stroker, allowing your partner to participate too.

NOTE: It feels particularly good when your partner sucks the tip of your dick whilst playing with the stroker.

What you’ll notice about blowjob strokers is that they don’t look like a mouth very much, it’s more of the sensation that you’ll get out of them.

The inside nubs are what cause this stimulus, and although they don’t exactly replicate the feeling of oral sex, the feeling is amazing.

Because of this lack of resemblance, women tend to like buying strokers as gifts for their partner to use interchangeably with their mouth and/or vagina.

They are also regularly used by travellers as they tend to be smaller in size, have no moving parts and are very discreet.

Last point – they are pretty tight so you’ll need a fair dose of lubricant to prevent friction.

Blowjob strokers are a great beginners to use during masturbation or foreplay. We would recommend them for travellers or men who are working away from home too.

Pros

  • Can be used solo or with partner
  • Helps create more Intense orgasms
  • Very easy to clean
  • Most affordable option
  • Discreet to carry and hide

Cons

  • Be wary of sizes (tightness)
  • Doesn’t resemble mouth

Want to take our favourite blowjob strokers? Just click here.

 

realistic mouths

Realistic Mouths

Next, we have oral masturbators with realistic mouths.

On the outside of these toys, they have lips and skin that look and feel real!

This helps you visualise what it’s like to receive a blowjob.

They differ from strokers in that they are shaped like a torch and the inside is closed off at the end.

The insides of the realistic oral masturbators also more closely resemble a woman’s mouth. Most even have a tongue and teeth!

The only thing that you’ll need to be wary of is that they do need a bit of lube to get you started off.

The popularity of these toys has exploded over the past ten years with porn stars now licensing out moulds of their mouth as a way to give their fans a better experience.

This rise has coincided with the attraction of one brand in particular called the Fleshlight, which has more or less dominated this particular space due it its high aesthetic appeal matched with a excellent feeling inside.

Realistic Oral Sex Toys are a great beginners male sex toy for use during solo or foreplay. We would highly recommend them for travellers or men who are working away from home too.

Pros

  • Most similar aesthetic to a real mouth
  • Hundreds of shapes and sizes available
  • Can choose options that mimic your favourite porn star

Cons

  • More expensive
  • Less discreet

Want to read more about Fleshlights? Just click here.

futuristic oral masturbators

Futuristic & Fantasy Blowjob Toys

Whilst other toys focus on the aesthetic, futuristic & fantasy style toys don’t resemble a mouth at all.

Instead, they are all about providing your penis with the ultimate sensory experience and are promoted as going ‘beyond natural’.

As a result, they tend to be more intense than other options.

Pros

  • Intense and enjoyable
  • Lots of different sizes

Cons

  • More expensive
  • Not very discreet

Just click here.

blowjob machines

Blowjob Machines

There’s a lot of confusion when it comes to blowjob machines in the adult toy market.

Some people identify them more generally as being just the same as blowjob masturbators, but that doesn’t make sense.

To us, a blowjob machine needs to having moving parts. That’s what makes it different from the other types.

All you need to do is put your penis inside the machine and it will do all of the work for you.

This is significantly more realistic; when receiving real head, you wouldn’t control the speed or intensity.

By allowing a degree of control over to the machine, you’ll find it much more natural.

With that being said, these machines aren’t the most discreet looking toys.

If you saw one, you’d know exactly its purpose.

In terms of the outward aesthetic itself, it doesn’t actually look too much like a mouth either.

However, if you are using a virtual reality porn simulator, then this won’t be a problem at all.

Blowjob machines are an excellent option for guys who have tried out a range of oral masturbators before and are looking to take their pleasure to the next level.

Pros

  • Excellent for solo use
  • Feels just like the reel thing
  • Easy to clean

Cons

  • Tend to be more expensive
  • Outward appearance doesn’t resemble mouth
  • Less discreet

Want to read more about blowjob machines? Just click here.

Not sure what to choose?

If you’re still not sure which one may be best for you, then it might be a good idea to check out our favourites.